Embracing Change and Mastery: Key Takeaways from My Conversation with Eloise
May 18, 2024
Recently, I had the privilege of being a guest on Eloise’s podcast, where we explored the journey from being a high performer to navigating the next phase in leadership and transformation. This episode was particularly impactful for me, as it coincided with a personal defining moment that underscored the importance of our discussion. Here are some of the highlights that I believe will resonate with you as deeply as they did with me.
From High Performance to Mastery
The transition from being a high performer to achieving mastery is a significant journey. High performers excel in their current roles, consistently delivering exceptional results. However, moving to the next level involves more than just maintaining high performance. It requires a shift in mindset and the adoption of new strategies and perspectives that pave the way for long-term success and transformation.
The Power of Asking the Right Questions
One of the pivotal moments in our discussion was exploring the questions we ask ourselves in times of uncertainty. I posed a thought-provoking question: "If nothing is at stake and you've got all the resources in the world, what would you want to be?" This question encourages us to step out of our comfort zones and envision our true aspirations without the constraints of our current circumstances.
In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in the chaos and retreat into our bubbles, focusing solely on our immediate tasks. However, this narrow focus can prevent us from seeing the bigger picture and identifying our true desires and goals.
Shifting Perspective to Overcome Challenges
When things don't go our way, our instinct is often to ask, "What am I doing wrong? What am I missing here?" While these questions are important, they can sometimes trap us within the confines of our existing mindset. Instead, I suggest asking, "What am I not doing?" or "What have I been trying to avoid?" These questions can open up new avenues of thought and action, leading us to the solutions we need but haven't yet considered.
The Journey to Mastery
Mastery involves more than just skill and performance; it requires a deep understanding of oneself and the ability to navigate complex and uncertain environments. It’s about recognizing that being a high performer is just the beginning. The real challenge and opportunity lie in understanding where we want to go next and how to get there.
This journey involves continuous learning, seeking out new experiences, and being open to feedback. It also requires resilience and the ability to adapt to changing circumstances. As leaders in change and transformation, it’s crucial to embrace this mindset and foster it within our teams and organizations.
Listen to the full episode
I am immensely grateful to Eloise for inviting me to share my thoughts and experiences. This conversation was not only a professional exchange but also a personal journey that I hope will inspire and empower others to ask the right questions, embrace uncertainty, and strive for their true potential.
I encourage you to listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
Thank you for reading, and I look forward to continuing this journey of transformation and self-discovery with all of you.
Warm regards,
Jess
Till next week
Jess Tayel
Founder of the People of Transformation membership & community.
Elevate Change & Transformation high-performing leaders to soar above the sea of sameness and achieve new heights in mastery, influence, & impact without the drag of going solo or slow progression.